Showing posts with label sexual abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual abuse. Show all posts

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Jerry Sandusky's Trial...

Smiling as he goes to court...pft!


I really tried to avoid any news to do with Sandusky's trial because I knew it would rile me up. Since the story first broke about Sandusky sexually abusing boys at Penn State it triggered my feelings about the pedophile priests that I am still waiting for the Church to do something about…besides lip service. But, unfortunately I do listen to the news and when I heard the words “victim number ten” took the stand to testify, my blood pressure shot up.

Victim number ten. Ten victims that were willing to testify against him and who knows how many more could not. They were all abused over a 15 year period. Sandusky even created a charity, The Second Mile, to give him access to disadvantaged boys. Just on these ten victims alone Sandusky is facing 52 counts. Then there was testimony from a janitor who reported he saw two pairs of legs in a shower one night and then was told by a coworker, that he witnessed Sandusky performing oral sex on victim eight. And of course witness Mike McQueary, an assistant coach, who witnessed Sandusky assault a young boy in the shower and reported it to Joe Paterno, who reported it to school officials. Penn State failed to report any of this to law enforcement, but instead handled it by firing Sandusky from their school and washing their hands of this mess. In so doing, they made it possible for the alleged abuse to continue for who knows how many more years. Almost like the Church transferring priests from parish to parish, and allowing the abuse to continue.

I really didn’t want to get into this again, but then I saw the above picture of Sandusky arriving at court with a smile on his face and it made me sick. I heard how his lawyer, in questioning the victims, tried to make something of the fact that these, now men, could not recall all the specific details of what happened at the time. Never mind that they were abused and scarred for life. Never mind that they were traumatized. Sandusky’s lawyer, Amendola, is trying to create doubt and say these things horrible things didn’t happen because the victims can’t remember details or didn’t tell anyone at the time. It’s nothing short of badgering these men, who are now in their 20’s. It’s disgusting that they are being made to relive this whole ordeal and then their credibility is being questioned. There are TEN of them and witnesses!

Alleged Victim 1 on cross-examination tells Sandusky's lawyer: “I’m going to keep telling you the same answer. I want you to stop asking me the same questions over and over.”

I know he is trying to defend Sandusky, but there comes a point when a criminal’s actions are indefensible. His lawyer is no better in my eyes. He chose to take on Sandusky as a client. Everyone has the presumption of innocence, but here we have ten victims speaking out, we have eye witness accounts, and the evidence is overwhelming. Do the victims really need to be tortured even more? Something is wrong with this picture, when a person on trial, accused of harming at least 10 young victims, is smiling as the victims are being abused once again by his attorney.

Saturday, November 12, 2011

The Catholic Church Vs. Penn State

Yes, bless the children, in the name of the father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
Amen.


As much as the Penn State sexual abuse scandal bothers me, and it does, I can’t help but compare it to what happened nine years ago with the Catholic Church, when the priest/pedophile scandal broke out.  I have been waiting ten years or more for action on that situation and I have never gotten any satisfaction.  Where is the outrage against the church?  I feel like what my husband said at the time has come true.  He told me they will just wait it out and in time people will forget about it.  Now I feel like I am the only one who remembers and wants answers.  

In the case of Penn State, we have eight victims of sexual abuse.  The man, Sandusky, perpetrating the abuse was fired, but there was a witness and he told Paterno, who told a couple of other university officials, all of whom did nothing or contacted the authorities.  For all we know, Sandusky went on to another school and victimized more children.  Maybe, before he was hired at Penn State, he had a job where he was abusing children.  I hope his whole life in thoroughly investigated and more victims come forward.  He should be locked up for the rest of his life.  And laws need to be passed everywhere in this country, that people who know of sexual abuse of children must report it or they will be charged with aiding and abetting the abuser.  There is really not enough that can be done to protect our children.  

But what about the church scandal?  Were any of the priests prosecuted?  There were thousands of complaints over the years, which were handled internally by the church, just like at Penn State.  The authorities should not be involved and the story should not get out lest it tarnish their reputation.  So the church provided some quick “fix” therapy (or so they say) and then transferred the guilty priests to other parishes where unsuspecting parents and children were again victimized.  There is no cure for pedophilia, period.  The pedophile can take medication to eliminate their sexual urges, but who can trust them to do that?  Not me, that’s for damn sure.  Then the only other course of action is to lock them up for the rest of their lives.  As long as they roam free and there are children in this world, they will abuse them.  

Now what specifics are there on the church, who have cases reported all over the world?  Actual reports of sexual abuse in the church started coming out in the 1980’s.  When the scandal broke in 2001 the Pope declared it a “sin” against the sixth commandment of Decalogue, whatever that is, who cares.  Do we need the Pope to declare the sexual abuse of a minor by a priest a “sin.”  A report completed in 2004 found that 4,392 priests had complaints made against them based on 10,667 allegations filed. By 2002 the church paid out one billion dollars in settlements and LEGAL FEES.  Yes, Catholics everywhere who donated money at mass, were paying to defend pedophiles against these charges.  I will say this much, when the church scandal broke in 2001, we stopped giving money to the church.  They wrote us asking for contributions and I wrote back, to my pastor, two scathing letters telling him until I am satisfied that they have taken care of the problem and punished all involved I would be giving my money to worthy charities and not to the church.  I am still waiting.  I could be wrong, but I have yet to hear of a priest going to jail.  So many children were victims, I believe the figures aren’t even close the real number of victims.  Some of these children, as is often the case with abuse of this nature, grew up to be abusers, all of them had their lives ruined and their innocence taken away.  

So while I am outraged at what went on and is going on at Penn State, I will never forget what came out in 2001 with the Catholic Church and I am not satisfied that they have done nearly enough to rectify and prevent this from happening.  I believe they destroyed documents that contained complaints and their cover-up transfers as much as they could.  And what happened to law enforcement?  There were lists of priests in the newspapers who were being investigated and I never heard of anything coming out of those investigations.  Two of the priests were involved with programs and churches that my girls took part in.  One was part of our church and religious instruction program the other was affiliated with the church where they went to Girl Scouts.  I never heard anything about either of them after their names were on the list.  Were they all allowed to withdraw from the priesthood and disappear to who knows where?  I don’t think I will ever know.

When society realizes that children don’t have a voice and they need us all to speak up for them and protect them, maybe something will be done.  Those at Penn State who were willing to look the other way and allow this to go on for ten years, that is a crime.  If it were their children you can bet they would have had plenty to say, but these were someone else’s children so they turned a blind eye to it.  No one had a twinge of conscience?  No one thought that after Sandusky was fired he would be still going after innocent children?  

The whole thing just makes me sick.